Phone Dating - The Safe Way To Get To Know Someone



Posted: Thursday, June 04, 2009

by Susan Lancaster
Lovestruck

So if you have been on a couple of dates with someone and you're starting to feel those butterflies
in your stomach what should you do? Most people want to drive right in and fall head over heels, and meet up constantly and spend a lot of time with the other person but I say, fake an illness for a week or so and just talk on the phone because this will give you a real insight into whether you connect in a none physical way. It is also a great place to talk about your aspirations, dreams and feelings and see if the other person really does like you and want to connect with you emotionally.

On a date you have, the looking into each other's eyes and the physical sexual stirrings to jump on one another but could this just be lust and nothing more? Obviously it would help to have a great deal of lust for each other but eventually this will fizzle out and so before you get all steamy, just give yourself a chance to back off and talk to your date. Why not try and find out their interests and hobbies, really test how much you connect with them through conversation and if by the end of that week you have talked practically every night, all night, then go right ahead but if mid week you're getting a little bored by their conversation then you know it's probably just lust. That doesn't mean you can't have fun though!

Susan is a relationship expert who guides couples and singles in the online dating world. Susan works for Lovestruck.com who let you search and meet singles who live nearby. If you live in the UK then why not try dating in London and meet professionals, for a date at lunchtime or after work!
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